いつもお読みいただき、ありがとうございます。これは2016年～2017年年末年始のBaitingです。Cendrillonさんのブログで言及されている同じ詐欺師にメールを送り、その後Facebookでやり取りをしてみました。主な目的は、彼が詐欺師であるという明確な証拠を出して、詐欺情報掲載サイトに晒すこと。
タイトルは詐欺師が相手の日本人がCendrillonさんから私の意地悪なキャラに代わったことに気づかなかったことにちなんで、「もしシンデレラがマレフィセントと入れ替わったら」としました。
珠子さんはバツイチ、自称「DV原因で離婚」、高校生の息子が実家から通学している。離婚したシングルマザーの心理とか詳しくは知りませんのであくまでも演技です。どうか珠子の言動に多少疑問な点がありますことをご容赦くださいませ。
この詐欺師が使う写真は、カリフォルニアのビジネスマンの写真です。詳しくはRomancescam.comの情報をご参照ください。
この後、FBで長いメッセージが届いていました。こういう感動的なお話というのは必ずどこかからコピペしてきたものです。そして原文はこちら。この詐欺師は自分のストーリーに合わせて一部書き換えていますがほとんどの内容は元の話と同じです。妻のメアリーが娘のサラを残して乳がんで亡くなり、その後生前に妻と話をしたことに従い、自分の幸せをもう一度探してみることにしたとかいう話、この種の詐欺でよく出てきますね。
Alan: Hello Sweetie,how are you?Hope you are having a wonderful time with your family?
I cant wait to come and get to meet all your family.And i Promise to love your son as much as i would love you.
I just thought i should share with you a little bit about how mary passed and all i went through after she passed.
As you know my wife Mary died from breast cancer.As she was in the hospital for the last time i came face to face with all the different scenarios that Mary and i had
talked about since she was first diagnosed with cancer back in 2011.We had tried to plan for the day when i would leave the hospital without her and how i should go on
with my life and how i should finish raising our daughter.The last good conversation that Mary and i had a couple of days before she made that last trip to the
hospital,she had told me that i needed to find someone and to be happy,because she had seen how hard it was on me when my mom passed away.She also said she knew how
hard it would be on me to lose her and that sarah also needed a mother.However we had also talked about other things before that,what to do about raising sarah,how to
survive financially,and what to do for her funeral.
Mary had wanted a closed casket,she didn’t want people to remember how the cancer had made her look.She wanted people to remember her from her pre-cancer days or to
remember her for her smile or to remember her for many other reasons than what the cancer had transformed her into.So my first priority was to have a funeral that she
wanted but that also Sarah felt comfortable with.Mary had felt very embarrassed and humiliated about what the cancer had done to her body.I was going to protect her
until we laid her to rest and I did.I was a Rottweiler on guard duty and i was rude to a few people who came early to the visitation while family members were viewing
Mary.
About 3 months after Mary died,i felt it was time to start working on the other thing Mary had told me to do.I needed to find someone for myself and a new mom for
sarah.There were no guides or manuals or books that i could find to help lead me in this task Mary had set for me.I was in a haze and i thought if i did what i was
told to do like i had for the last 23 years of married life things would be fine.This wasn’t going to be the case!Mary was wrong in not telling me to wait until i was
out of the haze of her.She was right in her goal but neither she nor i realized that i needed to have a grief-less mind before i started on this task!
I made the biggest and most humiliating mistake of my life.I met and dated someone 13 months after Mary died.Most people would say that 13 months isn’t too soon to
meets someone after the death of a spouse and i would agree.I haven't really dated much in my life so it was really difficult for me.However,the mistakes i made were
not listening to friends who said i had picked someone who didn’t match me,someone who was so different from Mary that it wouldn’t work, someone who had too many red
flags for me.After being with her for few months we both realized it wasn't working at all.I felt ashamed,humiliated and embarrassed because of this failure.
Right now am 101% ready to move on with life.Am so tired of living in pain and so tired of this lonely life.I want to be happy again,i want a mother for my daughter,i
want to feel like a normal human being once more.
And i also want you to know that am really getting to fall for you more and more everyday.
I cant wait to finish my project and come and start a life and a happy family with you.